Q: Can I date while I’m going through the divorce?

A: The short answer is no. If you engage in a relationship while you are still married you may bring about grounds for divorce for your spouse. I realize that they may be the love of your life and that no one has ever treated you this way before, but if it is meant to be, they will wait for you until your legal battle is over.



Q: Can I have my boyfriend/girlfriend around the children?

A: Before the divorce is completed the answer is an emphatic no. This is something that can truly be used against you. After the divorce is final, you may be able to have them around the children, depending on the language contained in your MDA (link). However, I would strongly recommend that you do not expose your children to your signifigant other for some time. After a life changing event, it is important that you protect your children from further change.



Q: When can I re-marry?

A: You can legally remarry 30 days after the entry of your final decree of divorce.



Q: When will I have my divorce heard?

A: If you have children, your divorce cannot be heard until 90 days have passed from the filing of your complaint (link). If you do not have children you must wait at least 60 days from the filing of your complaint. These timelines generally only apply to an ID (link) divorce. Most divorces require much more time to negotiate and conduct discovery.



Q: I have an Order of Protection, can I own a gun?

A: If you are under an Order of Protection, you need to get rid of your weapons, give them to a friend or your parents. Do not go hunting. It is imperative that you discuss this with us an Order of protection may make you a felon for firearm purposes.



Q: How much does it cost to file for divorce?

A: As of April 22, 2008, the filing fee for a divorce with children is $376.50 and without is $301.50. This fee does not include having the divorce served on your spouse, nor does it include attorney fees.



Q: What does the Bible say about divorce?

A: I am not a minister, nor a member of the clergy. I am however a Christian. I would strongly recommend that you seek the advice of your pastor in this area. If you do not currently have a home church or pastor to discuss this area with, click here for a well written article on the subject or click here to listen to a sermon series from my pastor on the subject.