Tennessee Divorce Terms: A Plain English Glossary
From The Mid-South Divorce Guide, by William W. Jones IV, a
Memphis family law attorney and Rule 31 Listed Family Mediator licensed
in Tennessee and Mississippi. This guide covers Shelby, Tipton and
Fayette Counties in Tennessee and DeSoto, Tate and Tunica Counties in
Mississippi.
Questions this page answers
- What does pendente lite mean?
- What is a QDRO?
- What is dissipation in a divorce?
- What does equitable distribution mean?
[[[Alimony in
futuro]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-alimony-in-futuro}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-alimony-in-futuro-gl-alimony-in-futuro}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-alimony-in-futuro-gl-alimony-in-futuro-gl-alimony-in-futuro-gl-alimony-in-futuro}.
Long-term or indefinite spousal support, for cases where the
disadvantaged spouse cannot be rehabilitated to a comparable standard of
living. Modifiable. Terminates on death or the recipient’s
remarriage.
[[[Alimony in
solido]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-alimony-in-solido}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-alimony-in-solido-gl-alimony-in-solido}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-alimony-in-solido-gl-alimony-in-solido-gl-alimony-in-solido-gl-alimony-in-solido}.
A definite total sum of spousal support, payable at once or in
installments over a fixed period. Generally not modifiable and does not
terminate on death or remarriage. Often used for attorney’s fee
awards.
[[[Alternate residential
parent]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-alternate-residential-parent}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-alternate-residential-parent-gl-alternate-residential-parent}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-alternate-residential-parent-gl-alternate-residential-parent-gl-alternate-residential-parent-gl-alternate-residential-parent}.
The parent with whom the child resides fifty percent of the time or
less.
[[[Answer]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-answer}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-answer-gl-answer}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-answer-gl-answer-gl-answer-gl-answer}.
The written response to a complaint, generally due within thirty days of
service.
[[[Basic Child Support
Obligation]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-basic-child-support-obligation}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-basic-child-support-obligation-gl-basic-child-support-obligation}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-basic-child-support-obligation-gl-basic-child-support-obligation-gl-basic-child-support-obligation-gl-basic-child-support-obligation}.
The figure drawn from the Tennessee Child Support Schedule based on the
parents’ combined adjusted gross income, before add-ons and the
parenting time adjustment.
[[[Best interest
factors]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-best-interest-factors}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-best-interest-factors-gl-best-interest-factors}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-best-interest-factors-gl-best-interest-factors-gl-best-interest-factors-gl-best-interest-factors}.
The list in Tennessee Code Annotated section 36-6-106(a) that governs
parenting decisions. Eighteen enumerated considerations as of July 1,
2026.
[[[COBRA]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-cobra}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-cobra-gl-cobra}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-cobra-gl-cobra-gl-cobra-gl-cobra}.
Federal law allowing a former spouse to continue on the employee
spouse’s group health plan, generally up to thirty-six months, at full
cost plus a fee. Notice is required within sixty days of the
divorce.
[[[Complaint]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-complaint}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-complaint-gl-complaint}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-complaint-gl-complaint-gl-complaint-gl-complaint}.
The document that starts a divorce, stating the grounds and what relief
is requested.
[[[Contempt]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-contempt}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-contempt-gl-contempt}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-contempt-gl-contempt-gl-contempt-gl-contempt}.
Violating a court order. Can be civil or criminal, and can result in
fines, fee awards, make-up parenting time, or jail.
[[[Counter-complaint]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-counter-complaint}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-counter-complaint-gl-counter-complaint}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-counter-complaint-gl-counter-complaint-gl-counter-complaint-gl-counter-complaint}.
The defendant’s own complaint against the plaintiff, filed in the same
case.
[[[Discovery]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-discovery}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-discovery-gl-discovery}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-discovery-gl-discovery-gl-discovery-gl-discovery}.
The formal exchange of information before trial. Interrogatories,
requests for production, requests for admission, subpoenas,
depositions.
[[[Dissipation]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-dissipation}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-dissipation-gl-dissipation}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-dissipation-gl-dissipation-gl-dissipation-gl-dissipation}.
Wasteful spending of marital assets for a purpose contrary to the
marriage. Considered in property division.
[[[Final Decree of Divorce, or
FDD]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-final-decree-of-divorce}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-final-decree-of-divorce}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-final-decree-of-divorce}.
The order that actually ends the marriage. You are divorced as of the
date it is entered by the clerk, not the date of the hearing.
[[[Equitable
distribution]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-equitable-distribution}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-equitable-distribution-gl-equitable-distribution}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-equitable-distribution-gl-equitable-distribution-gl-equitable-distribution-gl-equitable-distribution}.
Dividing marital property fairly, which does not necessarily mean
equally. Tennessee’s standard under section 36-4-121.
[[[Ex
parte]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-ex-parte}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-ex-parte-gl-ex-parte}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-ex-parte-gl-ex-parte-gl-ex-parte-gl-ex-parte}.
An order entered without the other party present, generally only in
emergencies. Followed by a hearing where both sides appear.
[[[Grounds]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-grounds}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-grounds-gl-grounds}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-grounds-gl-grounds-gl-grounds-gl-grounds}.
The legal reason for the divorce.
[[[Interrogatories]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-interrogatories}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-interrogatories-gl-interrogatories}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-interrogatories-gl-interrogatories-gl-interrogatories-gl-interrogatories}.
Written questions the other party must answer under oath.
[[[Irreconcilable
differences]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-irreconcilable-differences}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-irreconcilable-differences-gl-irreconcilable-differences}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-irreconcilable-differences-gl-irreconcilable-differences-gl-irreconcilable-differences-gl-irreconcilable-differences}.
Tennessee’s no-fault ground. Requires a complete written agreement
resolving all issues.
[[[Marital
property]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-marital-property}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-marital-property-gl-marital-property}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-marital-property-gl-marital-property-gl-marital-property-gl-marital-property}.
Generally, property acquired by either spouse during the marriage,
regardless of whose name is on it.
[[[Marital Dissolution Agreement, or
MDA]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-marital-dissolution-agreement}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-marital-dissolution-agreement}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-marital-dissolution-agreement}.
The written contract resolving property, debt, and support. It is the
agreement that dissolves the marriage, which is worth thinking about for
a second.
[[[Mediation]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-mediation}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-mediation-gl-mediation}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-mediation-gl-mediation-gl-mediation-gl-mediation}.
A settlement process run by a trained neutral who cannot decide anything
and can only help the two sides reach agreement. Ordered in contested
Tennessee divorces.
[[[Motion]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-motion}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-motion-gl-motion}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-motion-gl-motion-gl-motion-gl-motion}.
A request for the court to do something before final judgment.
[[[Pendente
lite]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-pendente-lite}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-pendente-lite-gl-pendente-lite}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-pendente-lite-gl-pendente-lite-gl-pendente-lite-gl-pendente-lite}.
Latin for while the suit is pending. Refers to temporary orders.
[[[Permanent parenting
plan]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-permanent-parenting-plan}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-permanent-parenting-plan-gl-permanent-parenting-plan}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-permanent-parenting-plan-gl-permanent-parenting-plan-gl-permanent-parenting-plan-gl-permanent-parenting-plan}.
The required court-approved document governing residential time,
decision-making, support, and dispute resolution for minor children.
[[[Primary residential
parent]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-primary-residential-parent}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-primary-residential-parent-gl-primary-residential-parent}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-primary-residential-parent-gl-primary-residential-parent-gl-primary-residential-parent-gl-primary-residential-parent}.
The parent with whom the child resides more than fifty percent of the
time.
[[[QDRO]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-qdro}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-qdro-gl-qdro}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-qdro-gl-qdro-gl-qdro-gl-qdro}.
Qualified Domestic Relations Order. The separate order required to
divide most employer retirement plans.
[[[Rehabilitative
alimony]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-rehabilitative-alimony}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-rehabilitative-alimony-gl-rehabilitative-alimony}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-rehabilitative-alimony-gl-rehabilitative-alimony-gl-rehabilitative-alimony-gl-rehabilitative-alimony}.
Support to help a spouse achieve, with reasonable effort, an earning
capacity permitting a comparable standard of living. Tennessee’s
preferred form.
[[[Residential
schedule]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-residential-schedule}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-residential-schedule-gl-residential-schedule}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-residential-schedule-gl-residential-schedule-gl-residential-schedule-gl-residential-schedule}.
The calendar in the parenting plan specifying where the child is on
which days.
[[[Rule 31 Listed Family
Mediator]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-rule-31-listed-family-mediator}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-rule-31-listed-family-mediator-gl-rule-31-listed-family-mediator}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-rule-31-listed-family-mediator-gl-rule-31-listed-family-mediator-gl-rule-31-listed-family-mediator-gl-rule-31-listed-family-mediator}.
A mediator who has completed the Tennessee Supreme Court’s family
mediation training and is listed by the Administrative Office of the
Courts to mediate family cases.
[[[Separate
property]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-separate-property}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-separate-property-gl-separate-property}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-separate-property-gl-separate-property-gl-separate-property-gl-separate-property}.
Property owned before the marriage, or received during the marriage by
gift, inheritance, bequest, or devise.
[[[Service of
process]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-service-of-process}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-service-of-process-gl-service-of-process}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-service-of-process-gl-service-of-process-gl-service-of-process-gl-service-of-process}.
Formal delivery of the complaint and summons.
[[[Significant
variance]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-significant-variance}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-significant-variance-gl-significant-variance}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-significant-variance-gl-significant-variance-gl-significant-variance-gl-significant-variance}.
The fifteen percent difference between current ordered child support and
a current guideline calculation that permits modification.
[[[Spoliation]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-spoliation}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-spoliation-gl-spoliation}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-spoliation-gl-spoliation-gl-spoliation-gl-spoliation}.
Destruction of evidence. Permits a court to infer the missing evidence
was unfavorable.
[[[Transitional
alimony]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-transitional-alimony}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-transitional-alimony-gl-transitional-alimony}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-transitional-alimony-gl-transitional-alimony-gl-transitional-alimony-gl-transitional-alimony}.
Support to help a spouse adjust to the economic consequences of divorce
where rehabilitation is not needed. Generally not modifiable.
[[[Transmutation]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-transmutation}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-transmutation-gl-transmutation}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-transmutation-gl-transmutation-gl-transmutation-gl-transmutation}.
Separate property becoming marital property because the parties treated
it as marital.
[[[Uncontested]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-uncontested}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-uncontested-gl-uncontested}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-uncontested-gl-uncontested-gl-uncontested-gl-uncontested}.
A case where the parties agree on everything. It does not mean nobody
was upset.
[[[Venue]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-venue}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-venue-gl-venue}]{/divorce-guide/glossary/#gl-venue-gl-venue-gl-venue-gl-venue}.
Which county the case is properly filed in.
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