Tag: Tennessee custody law
I had a client once who got a job offer in another city. Great opportunity. Significant pay increase. The kind of thing you say yes to without hesitating, if you do not have a parenting plan.
Except she had a parenting plan. And her ex was not going anywhere.
She called me from the parking...
Fathers, Courts, and What the Law Actually Says
Posted in Big Latin Words.
Every June, right around Father’s Day, I get a version of the same call.
A father who believes the court system is set against him. Who has heard from someone at work or a buddy at the gym that judges always favor mothers. Who has already half-convinced himself that fighting for meaningful...
What a Parenting Plan Actually Has to Say
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I keep a folder in my office of parenting plans I wish I had written. Not because they are beautifully drafted (though some are). Because they actually work.
The other folder is thicker.
That one is full of plans where someone thought “we’ll figure it out as we go” was a good approach to...
Co-Parenting When One of You Doesn’t Want To
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Let me settle one question before we get into the harder stuff.
Mother’s Day belongs to mom. Father’s Day belongs to dad. In almost every parenting plan I have ever written or reviewed, these holidays go to the respective parent regardless of whose regular weekend it is. That part...
Material Change in Circumstances: The Hardest Standard in Family Court
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People call me all the time wanting to change their custody order. And the first thing I have to tell almost all of them is the same thing:
Wanting to change it is not enough.
Feeling like things are different is not enough.
Even being right is not always enough.
To modify a parenting...
The Best-Interest Factors Just Changed. Here’s What That Means.
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I had a client once who did not want a divorce. He did not understand why his wife wanted one. What he kept saying, every time we talked, was that he wanted everyone to have a soft landing.
So when it came time to work out a parenting plan, he agreed to a step-up arrangement. Supervised...
Mississippi Wants 50-50 Custody. Tennessee Already Has It.
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Every other week, somebody walks into my office with a printout from the internet and a look on their face like they just found buried treasure.
“It says right here. 50-50. The law says 50-50.”
And I take a breath, because what I am about to say is going to disappoint them a...






